Biography

Dr.Stephen D. Ross is a licensed Performance and Clinical Psychologist with over 12 years of experience working with professional, college and elite athletes, coaches and teams.

He is the principal of OPTIM, based out of Fort Collins, Colorado. His areas of expertise include:

Mental skills/toughness training

Achieving, optimizing and sustaining optimal performance states;

Mindfulness;

Team chemistry;

Recruiting assessments;

Designing and maintaining mental training rooms.

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Dr. Ross also specializes in working with players/athletes, coaches and support staff to foster environments that maximize motivation and trust, while decreasing fear-based learning and anxiety.

Dr. Ross utilizes a research based approach to creating and nurturing optimal team chemistry and individual mastery and confidence.

As a licensed Performance and Clinical Psychologist with over a decade of emergency training and experience, Dr. Ross is an expert in dealing with substance abuse issues, anxiety, depression, season/career ending injuries, and other major career and life transitions.

"Whatever you do or dream you can do - do it. Boldness has genius and power and magic in it." ~ Johann Goethe


"Make no small plans. ... they have no magic to stir men's blood." - Daniel Burnham


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Exceptional Athletic Talent Versus Non-Exceptional Life Decisions

In professional athletes, sport psychologists often observe what has long been known as delayed adolescence.  It is simply a term for athletes and others who have, by no fault of their own, found adulation and financial gain for their athletic skills, to the detriment of their complete self development. 

When athletic development becomes the entire focus of anyone's life, other developmental tasks can drop by the wayside. Essentially, life choices might never be anchored in cause and effect thinking. 

Some athletes can begin to believe that the rules of life do not apply to them, as they have, by virtue of their athletic talent, never experienced the consequences of poor life choices.

This is not a blame or a shame thing in any way.  It is merely a perfect storm of talent, circumstances, and organizational focus.  Organizations are focused on talent development and winning.  They are not inherently set up to develop other aspects of human development.

Granted, most professional athletes are well anchored in a set of core beliefs about personal responsibility on and off the field of play.  Identifying athletes that require more life skill training and providing proactive programming would go a very long way in keeping the talent on the field and away from the agencies/entities in the outside world that grant no exceptions for non-exceptional life decisions.